Matters of heart can never be easy. I thought, as am enjoying the writing and sharing my thoughts structured or not.
This is what came to mind is that the relationship is like a dance between two people, with their own part, more the Wallz, Quick step the Latin American etc..where it’s just the two people in it, not so much the group or solo routines.
Let’s look at dance where partners have to be in it together, both committing , practice together or sometimes as individuals just to perfect their routine,they have individual responsibility to either lead, follow or just dance together…..not forgeting the need to perfect the art and be better every single time, for everything they committed to, professional, building a name, for fun, competition if need be or anything that the dance partners decides on.
Hands holding tight as the symbol of togetherness joined in supporting each other. No letting go of the hands holding in the dance as a key factor in the dance. Even if there is stumbling and falling there is comfort in the holding hands, however way. The 100% chance of stepping on each others toes, while learning and starting the 1st steps to the dance routine.
The unspoken rule for cautious behavior and awareness of the other just in front you, looking at how you doin in the dance, how you learn how you deal with yourself and how you deal with the “partner in dance” the mistakes, the endurance what you do well and better. The dance the passion, the love, the constant practice and new routines over and over again, different music and tune…
In all this dance, teaching each other, the dance as we know it, as we want the partner to know the dance and dancing, individualy, through us as teachers of what we know, through others the experts, other dancers before us who have been there done that,other dancers learning from us and aspire to what they see or know.
Then time comes where the dance becomes a routine nothing more but just what it is , no effort to be better,no need for learning new routines? no discovering of new things yet the dance remains in motions or even going back to what got the partners together in the dance.
When do we want to stop dancing with somebody, when do we stop feeling the heat to be with somebody who loves you. # cheesy I know…Whitney’s lyrics are better than mine.
Whats in the dance…?Please share your thoughts.